As Mothers, we are very rarely aware of the complex lineage we’ve been handed and the unseen force of that lineage that is at work in us.
We’ve inherited behaviours and beliefs from every aspect of our family lines, as well as from our community, from our society, from our culture as well as from the multitude of media sources we are exposed to.
No wonder we struggle at times, with what seems like a very complicated/tangled bundle of issues, emotions, and relationships.
In a previous post I talked about how we are not meant to be flawless, (It's Not Our Job to Be Flawless), perfect women or mothers. Our job is to do the best we can with what we’ve been handed. Hopefully, we can parse out some time and resources to untangle some of what we’ve been handed and make the legacy/lineage a bit less messy for ourselves and the next generation. But that is an aspiration, not a requirement!
In my recovery program we trace the history of your female lineage to uncover the particular aspects of behaviour and beliefs that you have inherited. And then we go about using the insights and shifts in understanding and perspective to improve your experience as a woman/mother/sister/friend.
To all you who may be struggling this Mothers Day, I'm sending you my love.
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