You’ve been handed a lineage.
As was your mother, and her mother.
If you can look at that lineage and see that you have taken what you’ve been given and improved upon it and/or overcome any of it,
If you can look back at the ‘mistakes’ your parents made and see how they did better than their parents,
If you can have gratitude for the leg-up they gave you that they didn’t have,
If you can have love and compassion for them and their journey,
If you can have a loving relationship with those in the line before you, and after you, even if you don’t agree with their views, lifestyle, choices, etc.… and not need them to change,
you have already completed your task.
You have done your part of improving your lineage.
There may be some in your line who blame you, guilt you, shame you.
Allow them their pain and suffering.
It is now their job to improve upon the lineage.
As you have.
It is not our job to overcome everything and be flawless. It is our job to do our part in strengthening the lineage.
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